Mandy was 32 at the time – very fit, healthy, working full time, playing sport. And no previous signs of being unwell. Mandy had been married for a year with plans to start a family with Peter when her life in 2020 changed direction.
After not being able to go to the toilet for a couple of days and then having quite severe pain, Peter took Mandy to the local hospital. Mandy went into surgery for a scope to determine the cause of the pain but woke up with an ileostomy (a stoma formed from the small intestine) and was told that she had Stage 2 bowel cancer.
Given how sudden things had changed, and the unknowns relating to cancer, Peter gave up his new cake business and went back to a regular job. They needed some stability.
Once out of hospital, Mandy started precautionary oral chemotherapy (512 tablets in total) and when she had recovered from that treatment, wanted to have the ileostomy reversed. But testing in 2021 revealed that the cancer had reoccurred. Another bowel obstruction and the associated severe pain took Mandy back to Bathurst hospital, where a nasal gastric tube was again inserted to help remove the blockage. Mandy was then taken by ambulance to RPA Hospital in Sydney, making a detour at Katoomba Hospital to get more pain relief. After her 12 hours surgery, Mandy learnt that due to the spread of her cancer, they removed her uterus, both ovaries, more of her large bowel, and put in a permanent end colostomy. They also ran a hot chemotherapy bath (HIPEC) through her peritoneal cavity to kill the cancer that couldn’t be seen.
Learning that her plans to start a family were crushed, and getting pneumonia and having a clot in her neck added to the difficulties already impacting Mandy’s recovery from the surgery. Mandy needed to come off the PICC line, which was how she was getting nutrition, and learn to eat again. Mandy was in RPA hospital for 66 days as they managed to get her fluid retention right and her bowels working again.
Back home, Mandy started chemotherapy at Daffodil Cottage and was also taking 21 tablets a day to manage her dehydration. It took 10 months for Mandy’s life to start to feel normal again – return to work, hockey, learning what she could and couldn’t eat. However, later scans revealed cancer in her upper right abdomen wall which led to radiotherapy and low dose chemotherapy via a port in January 2023. And cancer in her lungs lead to an extremely high number of chemo rounds (25) starting in January 2024.
Mandy learnt about Can Assist after her surgery in 2021. She is so grateful that Can Assist pays for her medication, given her large daily intake of tablets, and pain management support. “Coming out of hospital and not having to worry about that expense was really, really helpful. I am so grateful for Can Assist.” To date, Mandy has had to travel nearly 8,000kms so far for her cancer treatments.
Mandy is also grateful for her husband Peter, who has been her rock.